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Early signs of winter…

October 11, 2009

It’s official – winter is on its way! So much for our fall!

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(taken from our deck… no Pikes Peak today)

So, it looks my ‘hiatus’ post was not accurate. I felt bad for ignoring our poor blog for so long that I thought I should take an official ‘hiatus’ from it. What I realized is that I feel more freedom and inspiration to post when I don’t feel the pressure to do so. So, no more posted hiatus(s). From now on, if I don’t feel inspired – I’ll take the freedom to ‘disappear’ and make a blogging appearance when I feel like it! Ha!

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Hiatus

September 10, 2009

Ryan and I have decided to take a little hiatus from our blog. We wish we had the time and energy to keep it up, but at the moment – we’re finding that quite difficult.

I’ve asked Ryan for months now to blog about the many, many books he’s read over the past year. In the midst of reading them, he’s shared so many thought provoking questions and ideas that I thought it would be great for him to share that w/ others. But w/ him working close to 60 hrs/week with his new job and grad school – I think he’s got his work cut out for him.

And as I’ve been dedicating a lot of my time to a different project (that has been so good for me btw) I have found it difficult to devote time here as well.

So, given that we don’t have the time and energy we’d like to invest in this blog – we’re taking a break. For the 5 or so readers out there – don’t worry… we’ll be back. We just need a lil time off!

(If I do decide to post during this ‘hiatus’ period – it may be few and far between – just as I feel led to share something.)

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Has it really been 2 months?!

August 16, 2009

Wow – it’s been quite awhile since our last post and update. That was an accident. I knew that we had a busy summer, but I was hoping to at least write a few posts through out. But as our summer turned from busy to chaotic- that proved to be a difficult task.

So here we are 2 months later and I don’t even know where to start. I guess I’ll share what has most recently happened which has led to the prolonged absence from our blog. Ryan and I had hoped to share some wonderful news with you all… but were waiting till after our 2nd prenatal visit to announce that we were pregnant. But at that visit, we learned that we had lost the baby. We were close to 3 months pregnant at the time. We were so excited about God growing our little family. But we’re learning (or shall I say, ‘trying to learn’) to surrender what we think this journey should look like and accept the things we cannot change and allow God to use them to draw us closer to Him. We desire greatly to be parents and trust that God will fulfill those desires in His time… it’s the having faith and patience part that we got to work on!

On a lighter note, Ryan recently started his new job. For those of you who don’t know, Ryan just made a career change from a civil engineer to a high school math teacher. I say ‘just made’, but it’s been a longer and more complicated process than that. Ryan had been looking for a teaching job ever since we came back from Africa (over 6 months) and finally got an offer in June. In the meantime, he had found work doing everything from cleaning toilets, coaching baseball, substituting in 3 different school districts, being a math tutor, and working a summer school program. Did I mention that he had also started going back to school full-time to get his Masters in Curriculum and Instruction? So, for the past several months, he has been spreading himself thin (and I’ve felt the affects of that!).

After a busy month of two trips to TN and my youngest niece staying with us – we are ready for summer to end. We’re looking forward to Ryan having a steady, more predictable work schedule and taking less classes himself. And since I’m already settled in my job, we feel we can finally relax. I’m already looking forward to winter and snow! Isn’t that sad? I guess that in my mind, summer equals busy-ness and winter signifies a time of rest.

So, that’s where we’ve been for the past 2 months. I apologize for our absence. I hope to not disappear like that again… God willing our schedules don’t become that busy again!

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It’s Official!

May 10, 2009

It’s official! Cassidy is coming to Colorado! 8 planes, 6 tickets, 6 cities, 3 hrs, and $1000 later… it’s finally going to happen. Needless to say, it was a bit complicated and Ryan’s still trying to figure out how to make it work with our little budget – but nonetheless, we’re excited! Or I should I say… I’m ecstatic!

I’ve been waiting for 3 years to have my sister’s kids out here for the summer. My first niece (Savannah) was born when I was 12yrs, so I practically grew up with her like a lil sis.P8290002a

(Savannah @ 4 1/2 yrs)

By the time Cassidy came along I was like a full-time babysitter and felt like they were my own kids. I got to take care of them, watch all their first moments, tuck ‘em into bed… and all those precious daily things you get to do with lil ones.img170a

(Cassidy @ about 1yr)

Then Caleb came – the first boy! He wasn’t even a year old when Ryan and I moved to Colorado. So, I feel like I’ve really missed out on him. It’s not the same watching them grow up in pictures, over the phone, and the few times a year I get to see them.Can&Caleb 2

(Caleb @ 1 day old)

I miss them all so much! So, I’m determined to get them all out here one by one, year at a time. We can’t afford to cart them all out here at once… and probably couldn’t handle all 3. So, this year is Cassidy’s…. hopefully next year will be Savannah’s… then the 3rd will be Caleb’s. That’s the plan at least.IMG_2066a

(Now: Savannah 12, Caleb 3, Cassidy 9)

So, Ryan will go to TN the 2nd week of July, come back with Cassidy the 3rd week, then I’ll go to TN for the 4th week. It will be a bit chaotic, but definitely worth it! I’ll be counting down the days til Cassidy can come so we can spend an uninterrupted 10 days together, just me and her… and of course uncle Ryan!

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Update….finally

March 25, 2009

“I used to think I was a missionary taking the gospel to Sierra Leone.  But now I realize that it was in Sierra Leone that I learned the gospel, and now I’m a missionary bringing the gospel to the people and churches of Colorado Springs.”

This quote/saying has been weighing on my heart lately and just wanted to quickly share it with you all.  I feel as though this summarizes exactly where I’m at right now.  Like Candace, I have avoided posting for way too long now, not because I didn’t have anything to write, but because I had too much that I wanted to get out.  Anyways, I wrote a quick update on my own blog if you’re interested:  www.ryanhewitt.wordpress.com

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Our Humble Abode

March 21, 2009

img_3759We love our new apartment. We lived in these same apartments before we left for Africa, but a different building. We downsized to a 1 bedroom, but it’s been worth it b/c we got the best unit on the property (the view is amazing and we walk outside to join trails that go to Ute Valley Park)! Our apartment is the one on the top floor. This has been such a blessing for us. We were so happy to come back and not have to search and search for a place to live and just go back to what we knew (b/c we need a season of rest). It was also nice to downsize to a 1 bedroom b/c that forced us to get rid of a lot of things we really didn’t need and learn to live a lil more simply. And, I absolutely LOVE waking up every morning to watch the sun illuminate the mountains! Ryan and I are taking full advantage of being able to walk to the park and enjoy the lil bit of wilderness in the city. Here’s the rest of it for those of you who wanted to see: (it’s really similar to our last place, just smaller)

img_37541looking at front door leading into living room (laundry room to the left)

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img_3756(kitchen looking into dining room aka Ryan’s space)

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Wi don don

December 14, 2008

Wi don don (we are finished).  It’s really unbelievable, we’re getting ready to head to the airport in a few hours.  We haven’t posted in a while so, just to give you a quick update, here are some of the things that we’ve been staying busy with over the last few weeks:

1) We had our servant team retreat to Banana Island – a beautiful, secluded, peaceful island just up the coast from Freetown.  It was a great place to take time to begin to process these last 4 months.  It was great to get away together to remember and dwell upon the places we’ve seen God working here in this place and in our own lives.

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2) Last Saturday I led the Kroo Bay Good News Club.  It was one of the most crowded Clubs we’ve had since we’ve been here.  We’re going through the four weeks of advent and I was focusing on the sheperd’s story.  I thought what better way to tell the story than by being one of the sheperds.  Most of the kids were somewhere between terrified, amazed, and confused when I came out dressed as a sheperd.  One of the little kids nearly wet himself when I grabbed him with my staff.  Oh well, it was worth a shot. 

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3) Ropes Course outing – last Sunday I led a ropes course day at the beach for the Lighthouse kids.  It was a great way for the kids to work on teamwork and have fun at the same time.  The kids loved the games and swimming in the pool.  It was a lot of work to get it set up but was totally worth it to see how much fun they had. 

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4) Dance party – Friday night Candace planned a farewell/dance party for the Lighthouse kids.  It was a fun night filled with a lot of pictures, lots of smiles, lots of dancing and some great jollof rice.  It was also a touching night as the kids and staff went around and shared what they appreciate about us and what they will miss about us.  It was really weird hearing them because we truly feel that we received so much more from them than we ever gave….but, like our field director said, love is usually like that. 

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So, as I’ve taken the time to reflect on these last 4 months, I realized that when you’re in the midst of a tough journey, the path feels so long, but once you reach the end you realize that the journey really wasn’t that long at all and you’re coming out a different person than when you began. Not only that, but in hindsight it’s the good times from the journey that are etched in your memory rather than the tough ones.  So, the time has come.  This week has been filled with lots of goodbyes.  Something about saying goodbye to the people here just doesn’t feel right. I don’t know what it is. I think it’s this feeling of I came, I saw, I experienced, and now I’m leaving – but the kids and the people we’ve spent the last 4 months with don’t have that option.  They don’t get to leave.  They’re here to stay.  It makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong.  All I know is that I want to respect these people once I leave, whatever that looks like.  I want to remember them, to share their stories, to fight for them - even from thousands of miles away.

So, as we write our final post from Africa, I’ve decided that  instead of saying goodbye, I’m going to adopt the saying that the boys here all use.  There’s no good-byes……. just “Next time”.

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Heaven Came Down

September 30, 2008

As I noted in a previous post, Kroo Bay recently experienced intense flooding.  Instead of me describing everything from that night, I found this article that describes what happened on Sept. 12 :  http://allafrica.com/stories/200809120734.html.   Kroo Bay is located at the low point of the city, and everything from the city – trash, sewage, runoff, etc., all flow towards it.  You literally have to walk down steps to go down into Kroo Bay.

In the days following the floods, once the water had receded, we had to go down to look at the damage ourselves.  We went to the medical clinic and had the opportunity to talk to the Community Health Officer (CHO) and another man, Saidu Turay, who works and lives within the community.  They sat with us for about an hour and talked about the floods, the community, and issues they were facing.  It was heart-wrenching to hear a first hand account of the flooding from Saidu.  He said in his room water was up to his chest.  Everything he owned (clothes, bed, etc.) was under water that night and was still wet as we were speaking six days later, because the sun still had not come out.  That night many residents (including many children) were literally swimming in a mixture of rainwater, street runoff and overflow of the open sewers, to get up to higher ground. Many had to gather at the community center to wait out the floods.

After sharing about the flooding they began to share about the lack of relief and assistance they received.  No one had come to bring any type of assistance up to that point (6 days later); however they said that many organizations had come down to view the damage.  They sadly shared that this was typical.  Many people come down to view the poverty and are moved emotionally, then make empty promises to do something about it.  They explained that so many people and organizations over the years have come and promised to make a difference, but have simply exploited Kroo Bay in the process (too much to write about this here, more to come in another blog).

Anyways, as we left Kroo Bay we were overwhelmed with feelings of compassion, sadness, and helplessness.  There were only 3 of us and the needs were so great, we just started asking “What can we really do?”  As we were wrestling through this, we were discussing the saying - ”The Need is the Call”.  Later that evening, we remembered that the CHO had mentioned during the conversation that one of their many immediate needs was basic cleaning supplies to clean and disinfect the clinic, which had also flooded.  We remembered one thing that Saidu had said, “A drowning man will grasp at a straw.”  We decided that even though our resources were small, we were going to offer what we could and pray for God to bless our feeble efforts.  So to make a long story short we went out and spent $50 American dollars (150,000 leones) on cleaning supplies.  A few days later we took it down to the clinic and simply offered it to them, apologizing that it was not very much, but offering them the supplies and telling them that we would love to help them clean.

Saidu, the nurses, and a group of birth attendants (about 20 people in all) gathered in this small room and began looking through the cleaning supplies we brought.  They went through each item, one by one, and talked about it and what they could use it for.  In the end, they all gathered together and began singing to us.  They sang with so much joy and thankfulness.  The words to the song were simple, simply saying “We’re welcome”, but their faces expressed so much more.  They clapped, they smiled, they sang, they danced.   Honestly, there’s no way to express into words what happened in our hearts during those few precious moments.  Tears immediately came to our eyes and are coming to me now thinking back about that morning.  As I think back, the only way I know to describe it is a saying that came to my mind that morning: “Heaven came down and glory filled my soul”.

It’s absolutely amazing to me that God could bless us and the people of Kroo Bay so much through just $50, but it doesn’t end there.  For all of you have supported us through this journey, the money we spent was extra support money that we were given before our trip.  I pray that God blesses your heart as you read this, knowing that through your faithfulness, God has given hope to these people of Kroo Bay and blessed us beyond anything we could have imagined. We thank you all from the bottom of our hearts.

There’s so much more I want to share about this experience as well as others we have had in Kroo Bay, but I feel like I would be writing all day to simply paint a tiny glimpse of how I truly feel.  So hopefully there will be more to come in the future……we want to continue to work with the medical clinic during our time here.  While down there, they showed us the ”delivery room” and said they had already had 19 births there this month alone.  Trust me, this was no ordinary delivery room.  They told us that if we could get them some candles that would be greatly appreciated, as they need them when they have deliveries at night!  Unbelievable.  These people are amazing.

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Oh, Freetown

September 25, 2008

Wow! I have to say that the last two weeks have definitely been CRAZY!.  It feels like so much has happened that I don’t even know where to begin.  I just wanted to give a quick update on some of the crazy things we’ve recently experienced:

-We saw a guy get hit by an SUV right in front of us.  I was the first to him and luckily my First Aid training flashed back to me, so I didn’t want to move him and tried to talk to him, but he appeared to be in shock.  Soon after, a group of Sierra Leoneans came over to him and proceeded to pick him up and carry him to the sidewalk to get him out of the way of the traffic.   They kept saying “E na fayn” (He is fine).  How they knew for sure, I don’t know, since they didn’t ask him, but luckily he was and he walked away 10 minutes later.

-A couple on staff here recently adopted a Sierra Leonean baby, who was in need of a family.  She was born on Sept. 15th,  but the couple had a trip to head back to Nebraska for a month on Sept. 22 and they couldn’t take the baby with them……. so we immediately became parents for a month.  We’ve moved in with Cami (field director) and the 3 of us will be taking care of beautiful Keyara for the upcoming weeks.  Something tells me after caring for a newborn baby in Freetown for a month, having a baby in America will be cake (or maybe not!).

-What made the SUV incident even more frightening was the fact that we had just walked out onto the street to travel with Keyara for the first time.

-As if we didn’t stand out enough before as white people in Africa, we can now be seen walking around with an African baby………. and we thought people were staring at us before!

- Kroo Bay experienced intense flooding on Sept. 12th and we’ve been involved with that community in the aftermath.  More to come on this experience in another post.

- Every day we have experiences with beggars, but we’ve had a couple of interesting ones lately.  As the rain was pouring down and we were getting out of a taxi, a lady ran over to open the door for me before I could get out.  Once I got out she was asking for some money for opening the door, as we tried to continue on our way, she grabbed my arm with her whole body and latched onto me.  She would not let go, and if I had continued  to walk, I would have been dragging her.  Rather than creating even more of a scene than was already taking place, I decided that it would be worth the 1000 leones ($0.33) for her to let go of me.  So, I guess she got what she wanted from me.  She probably saw me coming a mile away…..oh well.

Anyways, I’m sure there’ll be many more stories to come, but I just wanted to give a quick update on the past few weeks.  At this point, it seems nothing really surprises us any more.  One of the staff has a saying that sums it up…… Oh, Freetown.

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Update… finally!

September 12, 2008

Well, I’ve been wanting to write a post for a while now… but time has escaped me here! So I thought I’d at least write a small update since we haven’t talked about what we are exactly doing w/ our time here.

Throughout each week, we have various meetings with the local staff including a bible study, book discussion, and community dinner.  We have Krio class 3 times a week, Lighthouse with the youth on Thursday nights, and the Kroo Bay Good News Club on Saturdays.

We are finally starting to tutor this week b/c the Lighthouse kids have just gone back to school. Ryan and I are tutoring a total of 7 kids from the Lighthouse program and then we are tutoring Noah’s kids as well. I am tutoring the 2 youngest children from Lighthouse (they’re about 13yrs old) and Noah’s 2 youngest: Saidu and Remie (they are 10yrs old). Ryan has the other older 5 teenagers from the Lighthouse program, w/ 2 of them being graduates (of the program). Ryan is also tutoring Noah’s oldest, Mohamed Ali.

Just in case you are wondering who Noah is, he is a Sierra Leonean who is on staff w/ WMF here. He has an incredible story and God is using him a lot here in Freetown, especially in Kroo Bay. You can read his story here (along w/ how he came to know Remie, Saidu, and Mohamed Ali)… it is worth your time! We are honored to be tutoring his kids! They are so sweet and a joy to be around!

We also hope to be spending some time in Kroo Bay. Ryan and I really want to meet w/ about 10 or so kids who go to the Good News Club but can not afford to go to school. We hope to spend Wednesday mornings w/ them doing arts and crafts, some teaching, and just loving on them. This is still a work on progress… so we will update everyone once something forms.

In the meantime, keep us in your prayers! Be praying that we continue to grow in our understanding of how God sees the poor and the world around us. Continue to pray for us to understand Krio- that we may communicate better w/ the people here. Pray for our hearts to be open to what God wants to do in us and through us! Pray for our health. Also, be praying for the former street children of the Lighthouse program – that they grow closer to God; and for the children of the Kroo Bay slum!